I’m a 46-year-old Pisces with the heart of a dreamer and the pride of a Leo—meaning I balance depth and intuition with confidence and self-respect. I know who I am, what I bring to the table, and I value authenticity over flash. Life has taught me that real connection is built through consistency, curiosity, and mutual effort, not noise. At this stage, I’m primarily looking to build meaningful friendships, the kind rooted in shared values and honest conversation. That said, I’m open to a long-term relationship if it develops naturally. I believe the strongest partnerships grow from genuine connection rather than force or expectation. I’m someone who loves reading—not just books, but people, situations, and ideas. I’m drawn to those who enjoy learning, questioning, and evolving. If you’re not afraid to teach what you know or be taught what you don’t, we’ll likely get along well. I respect intelligence, emotional awareness, and the humility to admit there’s always more to learn. I value independence and accountability.
I’m not interested in being someone’s rescuer, project, or safety net. I’m looking for a person who stands on their own—someone who adds value to my life just as I aim to add value to theirs. An asset isn’t about money or status; it’s about mindset, responsibility, and contribution. My outlook on life is practical but hopeful. I believe growth is intentional, character matters, and peace is underrated. I appreciate good conversation, shared silence, mutual respect, and people who handle life with purpose rather than excuses. If you’re grounded, curious, self-aware, and moving forward with intention—whether building friendships or something deeper—we’ll likely find common ground. I’m here for real connection, meaningful exchange, and the possibility of something lasting, built the right way. If you’re interested in building a connection with me, feel free to hit me up on JPay as well as here.
Please note: This service gives you the opportunity to send your first message to a new pen pal, free of charge. If you send more than one message to the same inmate, or a message to someone you already know, they will not be forwarded.
When you send a message using this form, our staff will print and mail it via US Mail or forward it via the prison’s email system, every two weeks. Be patient, and don’t expect an immediate reply. Inmates can’t email you back directly, so include your full name, email address, and complete mailing address or phone number for a reply. Messages without valid contact info won’t be forwarded, nor will messages with threatening or abusive language.
Want to message directly and more quickly? Check the inmate’s profile to see which email service he or she uses (i.e. GettingOut, JPay, Securus). These services cost between 5 to 50 cents per message and offer you the ability to message them directly and instantly.