I’m updating my profile for my family, and friends that have not seen any new photos of me in about 7 years. As you see I still got it! I’m taking good care of myself mentally and physically. Also, I’m still financially “Blessed” based on love! I still like to dress to impress! I just took these photos on July 15th, this year, since I was just transferred to San Diego. The photos came out dark inside the building so I took on outside so you can see I’m still “Yella”! This is not a campaign profile, but I’m single at the moment, and content, unless the right person comes into my life. I’m not needy or staving for attention which allows me to be honest in my communications with women because I’m not out to get a “Dollar.” I got my own. This has led to me being called too picky to be in jail. I call it being real, and true to my principles. I have a vision, and if a woman or associates does not fit into my vision I choose not to deal with them. It’s a distraction from where I’m trying to go in life. It has to make sense to me. I have grown a lot mentally, and education-wise.
When I first came to prison I was involved in a lot of negative, and destructive behavior based on my being innocent, and wrongfully convicted of a crime I didn’t commit. I was bitter, and resentful which led to me behaving violently in here towards my peers based on a mindset I had nothing to lose, and there were no consequences for my actions. I didn’t value my life or others. Then I started to grow spiritually, and mentally. I decided regardless of my circumstances I wanted to be the best version of myself. I started purging my life of negative relationships whether it was family or peers, and started to build healthy relationships. I went through a period of loneliness, and fear but being uncomfortable is all a part of change. I transformed from an “Adult Male” to a ” Responsible Man” who embraced all of the obligations that come with that title. That was my “Turning Point”!
The qualities I have fine-tuned that I’m proud to list are being emotionally mature, emotionally intelligent, confident, assertive, generous, respectful, supportive, and well-spoken. I’m able to effectively communicate my desires to a woman honestly due to me not being needy, or focused on what can happen through a woman. I’m self-sufficient, and old school in the belief it you rely on people you lose part of your manhood which can be used against you. I’m principled and have integrity. I set healthy boundaries in all my connections with human beings. I have never been into getting high. I was always about getting the money which I still like just from legitimate sources. I have a business certificate, and I like to invest in Real Estate. I’m able to use street-savvy tactics in a positive way. It’s not a dream. I’m actually being successful from jail. I’m preparing for parole next year, and I’m ready it spread my wings, and be successful in life. I’ve done my share of losing already!
As far as my likes in a woman she has to be educated, and can bring something to the table that supports my desires to have a fulfilling life financially, and emotionally healthy
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