I’m Oscar–51, disciplined, focused, and operating with a level of self-awareness that only comes from doing the work. Over the last 14 years, I’ve rebuilt my life from the inside out–turning setbacks into structure, and growth into a daily standard. In 18 months, I’ll be stepping into a new chapter. I’m coming prepared, with purpose, direction, and a foundation built through reflection and transformation.
I’ve invested in myself, earning degrees in Business Administration, Business Management with Entrepreneurship, and Automotive Technology. I’m also a Certified Peer Support Specialist, helping others sharpen their mindset, stand on accountability, and move forward stronger. Growth is an essential part of who I am; it’s not optional.
I take pride in my health and how I carry myself. I enjoy reading, cooking, music, staying active, and conversations that actually mean something. I’m drawn to depth; authentic energy, real dialogue, and a connection that goes beyond appearances. I believe a good connection should challenge you, inspire you, and bring out your best–not just pass the time. Loyalty, consistency, and emotional presence are attractive and matter to me
I’m not searching for attention. I’m looking for a woman friend. A friend that is confident, emotionally mature, and grounded in who she is. Someone who communicates openly, stands on her values, and is ready to build something lasting.
If you’re genuine, intentional, need something deeper than surface-level, and ready for a man who knows exactly what he wants… I’m listening.
Please note: This service gives you the opportunity to send your first message to a new pen pal, free of charge. If you send more than one message to the same inmate, or a message to someone you already know, they will not be forwarded.
When you send a message using this form, our staff will print and mail it via US Mail or forward it via the prison’s email system, every two weeks. Be patient, and don’t expect an immediate reply. Inmates can’t email you back directly, so include your full name, email address, and complete mailing address or phone number for a reply. Messages without valid contact info won’t be forwarded, nor will messages with threatening or abusive language.
Want to message directly and more quickly? Check the inmate’s profile to see which email service he or she uses (i.e. GettingOut, JPay, Securus). These services cost between 5 to 50 cents per message and offer you the ability to message them directly and instantly.
