Standing at 6’2″ and 215 lbs with an athletic build, I’m 43 years old, a proud Sagittarius, and someone who believes life is always better with good music, good conversation, and a sense of humor. I play guitar, so if you’re a fan of acoustic tunes or don’t mind the occasional imaginary concert through messages, we’ll already have something to talk about.
I’ll get the obvious part out of the way: yes, I’m currently incarcerated. It’s not where I planned to be, but it doesn’t define who I am or who I’m working to become. What matters most to me now is building real connections with genuine people who believe everyone deserves a chance to be known beyond their circumstances.
I’m hoping to meet a woman whose kind, open-minded, and enjoys laughing as much as talking about life. Bonus points if you appreciate witty banter, can handle a little flirting, and won’t judge my terrible dad jokes (they’re award-worthy… in my opinion). I’m not looking for perfection, just honesty, chemistry, and someone who’s interested in getting to know the man behind this profile. Whether we end up sharing stories, dreams, favorite songs, or simply making each other’s days a little brighter, I’d love to see where a conversation could lead.
If you’re thinking, “Well, he seems interesting,” don’t overthink it. Take a chance and say hello. The best connections often start with the simplest message. The easiest way to reach me is through the Securus app. I promise to bring the conversation, a little humor, and maybe even a few guitar-inspired stories. Who knows? This could be the beginning of something worth smiling about.
Please note: This service gives you the opportunity to send your first message to a new pen pal, free of charge. If you send more than one message to the same inmate, or a message to someone you already know, they will not be forwarded.
When you send a message using this form, our staff will print and mail it via US Mail or forward it via the prison’s email system, every two weeks. Be patient, and don’t expect an immediate reply. Inmates can’t email you back directly, so include your full name, email address, and complete mailing address or phone number for a reply. Messages without valid contact info won’t be forwarded, nor will messages with threatening or abusive language.
Want to message directly and more quickly? Check the inmate’s profile to see which email service he or she uses (i.e. GettingOut, JPay, Securus). These services cost between 5 to 50 cents per message and offer you the ability to message them directly and instantly.
