Rules of a Successful Pen Pal Relationship by Josh Kruger
There may come a time when you feel like your pen pal is “the one.” The U.S. Supreme Court ruled that prisoners do have a constitutional right to marry (See Turner v. Safley, 482 U.S. 78 (1987). But just because you have the right to do something doesn’t necessarily mean you should do it. My […]
Lifers Need Pen Pals Too! by Josh Kruger
Do shows like “Love After Lockup” hurt lifers who try to get a pen pal? Most of us inside prison think so. Why? Because there are no lifers on the show. Because of this, people who watch it are overlooking a life-term prisoner. They may watch “Love After Lockup” and decide to try and find […]
What to Write (and Not to Write) to your Prison Pen Pal
OK, so you’re about to write your first letter to a new inmate pen pal. Getting started can be a mix of anxiety-inducing emotions, from excitement to uncertainty. Here are some considerations and tips to guide you through this process. Showing Empathy and Respect It’s essential to recognize that your pen pal is in a […]
Six Key Benefits of Having a Prison Pen Pal
While some may view the idea of an inmate pen pal with skepticism, the positive impact on both the free-world pen pal and the incarcerated individual can be truly profound. From providing emotional support and companionship to gaining a new perspective on life, there are numerous reasons to consider becoming a pen pal to someone […]
Pen Pals Saved My Life
by Snaptura Prison Consultants While some people complain that their pen pal doesn’t appreciate them, or just uses them for money, it’s important to realize that for the majority of inmates, this isn’t the case. We thought we’d share a story from an incarcerated man who, around Thanksgiving, decided to express thanks for all of […]
If Only For a Day
by Snaptura Prison Consultants As you think about what to write in your first letter to a new pen pal, allow us to put some things into perspective. Often, the things we take for granted, here in the free world, could be a dream come true for a man or woman who is locked up. […]
Is Your Pen Pal Too Clingy?
by Snaptura Prison Consultants Perhaps you’ve heard this before: “I just received your first letter and I already can tell I’m falling in love with you.” “I know you just started writing me last week, but you are the most amazing person I’ve ever met. We have so much in common.” “Thanks for your email. […]